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One Less Stocking

One Less Stocking

There’s one less stocking tacked up,
where the Christmas stockings hang.
One less voice is singing,
the Christmas carols we all sang.
A dinner plate is missing,
next to our Christmas feast.
One less grab than past years,
one more empty seat.

All families have their heartaches,
from wounds of pride and pain,
but we owe ourselves forgiveness,
to make our family whole again.
Pride and hurt stands in the way,
of some things that should be said.
Don’t think of things we haven’t gained,
look at what we’ve lost instead.

Because next year may find less stockings,
less Christmas dinner plates.
Less grabs than we have this year,
it’s not easy, but it’s not too late.
Don’t let the time run out before,
we forever lose this chance.
Make Christmas what it used to be,
for parents, kids and aunts.

Because there’s one less stocking tacked up,
where the Christmas stockings hang.
One less voice is singing,
the Christmas carols we all sang.
Don’t let hurt and pride stand in the way,
of things that should be said.
Don’t look at things we haven’t gained,
but what we stand to lose instead.

— tbeaudet, Nov 29, 2007

About This Poem

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Region, Country: Boston, USA

Favorite Poets: Patti Smith, Lucinda Williams, John Prine, Bruce Springsteen, Jim Carroll, Bob Dylan, Tom Waites

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meic

18 years 6 months ago

This has much personal

This has much personal meaning for me. My son took his own life over Christmas 2001. He finally died the day after Boxing Day after ten comatose days. I'm sure you can imagine the hell of that Christmas for his family. Your message is delicately wrought, but totally clear. Cherish your loved ones while you can. Well written Mike
tbeaudet

tbeaudet

18 years 6 months ago

I know your pain

although my son was killed in a motorcycle accident, we both buried our boys which makes us kindred spirits in a way.....Much of my writing was inspired by this tragedy, and I'm certain you will relate, perhaps find some comfort in my writings. I haven't posted much yet, but be on the lookout. Please read "Today, I Guess"...I'm sure you will relate. I will post a few more today just for you, and I will be on the lookout for your work as well. God Bless my new friend..... Tom
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meic

18 years 6 months ago

After reading your poem

After reading your poem I'm not surprised, and you have my sincere sympathy. It just doesn't seem right to outlive your child does it? I've written five poems [one each year] in remembrance of Rhys. The first WEBMAKER & FRIENDS is aleady posted. I shall post the second ABOUT FACE shortly, and the others within the next few days. Thanks Mike
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musicguru

18 years 6 months ago

great read i love it

makes me think of some of my family i am not so close to anymore. reminds me that they are getting up there in age and the clocks ticking faster these days. makes me want to call them, tell them i love them. i think i will. thanks for the great work
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cricket

18 years 5 months ago

this is very

this is very powerful.. to tell your children and loved ones every day how much you Love them.. is a great message.. and something I always try to do... I'm so sorry for your loss.. but I know that he is watching you and knows how you feel.. and he is there with you everyday within your hearts and memories... God Bless You and Your Family.. Hugzzzz. cricket
Rett

Rett

17 years 11 months ago

One Less Stocking

Don’t think of things we haven’t gained, look at what we’ve lost instead poignant words if I ever heard them. So sad Tom. I wish something could be done or said, but unfortunately time is heedless of our wishes. My heart goes out to Mike also. I have not lost a son, but I lost a very close friend in the 9th grade because he decided to play Russian Roulette with another guy. I just wish I had words to express my sorrow at your loss and my appreciation of your work Rett ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Some call me lazy, I prefer Energy Conservationist~~~~~~~~~~~~~ That's P.C. speak by the way.
Janice Pearce

Janice Pearce

17 years 6 months ago

One Less Stocking

Tom, A sad, but beautiful tribute here, You did a fantastic job portraying the feelings of the ones left behind~ _____________________________ To write a touching poem, you must gently stir the soul, if it brings forth tears or smiles, then the story was beautifully told. ________Janice Pearce_________
tbeaudet

tbeaudet

17 years 6 months ago

Thanks Janice

It's very important to say what needs to be said. Thanks for your kind words. Tom
Debra Bryant

Debra Bryant

17 years 6 months ago

One Less Stocking

This piece speaks to my heart, my 21 year old niece died Dec 2nd 07. Life will never be the same again for her parents and family. We say things every day that are really meaningless and leave unspoken the most important words of all. Cherish those you love...because none of us have any promise of a tomorrow. God bless and comfort you, Debbie
tbeaudet

tbeaudet

17 years 6 months ago

My heart goes out

to you and your family. Nothing is worse than losing a child. Peace and comfort to you and yours this holiday season... I know it won't be easy. I would be honored if you would read some of my other work, as I'm certain you will be able to relate and just maybe, it will bring you some solace. Tom
Robert Melliard

Robert Melliard

17 years 6 months ago

Christmas

Hi Tom, This poem makes me think of my brother, who committed suicide on January 6th eight years ago, and at Christmas I also remember my father and mother who have both passed away. I'm afraid there are some other (Spanish) relatives who we don't see at this time of year because I argued with them at a Christmas Eve dinner a few years ago. They said English girls were ugly and I felt bound to defend my mixed-up race even though I'm married to a Spanish lady. But I shouldn't have made so much of it. An overdose of wine was partly to blame. At Christmas I guess we just have to try to forget about the absences and family conflicts and concentrate on making the festivities enjoyable for our children and grandchildren. Best wishes, Robert.
tbeaudet

tbeaudet

17 years 6 months ago

Sometimes

it's not easy, spending time with the family. Family dynamics are complicated to say the least, but nothing is more important than family. My condolences to you this holiday season, and remember to say what needs to be said before it is too late. Thanks for commenting. Tom
infinite_dwarf

infinite_dwarf

17 years 6 months ago

Tom

Sorry for the loss of your son. I'm sure holiday times are even harder than regular times. Beautifully written, and good strong message. Congrats on Evolution. ~Jess K. ---------------------------------------------------- - "If the opposite of 'pro' is 'con' would that make the opposite of 'progress' Congress? Just wonderin'....."
tbeaudet

tbeaudet

17 years 6 months ago

Thanks Jess

for your kind words and critique. It is appreciated more than you know. Happy Holidays to you. Tom
Linda Moses

Linda Moses

17 years 6 months ago

Tom

Very well written, sad but beautiful, with a message we all should listen to
tbeaudet

tbeaudet

17 years 6 months ago

Linda

Easier said than done, I know, but regrets can last forever. Thanks for commenting. Tom